While the picture above might not show a usual scenerio, cheating happens all the time. Unsuspecting significant others are oblivious...or so paranoid they push the cheater in that direction. But what goes through the cheater's mind? Regret? Anxiety? Excitement?
My friend is in a completely stable relationship. The two have been together a year, and have their up's and down's but nothing out of the ordinary. She agreed to have lunch with her ex-boyfriend after he transferred to her college. They both agreed to go to a party together that night. Knowing her past with the ex, I warned her to be careful. Playing with fire can get you burned fast. She decided to go out with him anyways. Later that night they kissed.
All the attention and fresh wave of feelings can give you the temporary high, but is it worth it to throw away what you already have? When you think of the ex, think of the person you were at that time. Most likely you have changed, matured, and grown as a person. Is it worth it to go back to where you came from?
